The Proven System to Charm, Flirt & Attract Women Over 40
—Right from Your Phone!
The Golden Guides: A Digital Course & Guidebook
Because women over 40 play by a different rulebook—and now, so can you.
Most dating advice out there is made for men chasing women in their twenties.
But what about the guy who wants something more real — who’s drawn to confidence, experience, and the kind of woman who knows what she wants?
The truth is, flirting with women over 40 is a completely different game. The same lines, strategies, and “pickup” advice that work on younger women often fall flat with women who’ve seen it all before.
So I decided to take matters into my own hands.
After the success of my best-selling course The Banter Blueprint — where I catfished women online to uncover what kind of flirting actually gets responses — I ran the experiment again. But this time, I catfished as my own 65-year-old father, diving into dating apps to flirt with women over 40 (a sentence I never thought I'd say.)
The result? The Golden Guide.
A complete, data-backed system showing you exactly what works (and what doesn’t) when it comes to sparking attraction, building chemistry, and landing real dates with confident, mature women online.
If you’ve been searching for advice that actually speaks to your stage of life…
This is that course.
Viral sensation, Jamie Date, is here to explain how attraction actually works in a way that any man can understand.
"I have so many matches, I actually have to become more picky in who I respond to," -Dave, 52
"After 5 years without a single date, I've been dating someone for the past 3 months. I met her online, thanks to you. She's incredible!" -Christian, 64
"How do I put this? You're shit works, Jamie! I have three dates on the books just for this week!!" -Sanjay, 59
I want results like them!In This Course, You Will Discover
1. What Women Over 40 Actually Respond To (That 20-Somethings Don’t)
Learn the psychology behind attraction for mature women. Their filters - sharper. Standards? Higher. And Their sense of humor different. You’ll finally understand how to craft messages that speak to a real connection instead of surface-level charm.
2. How to Get Out of Your Head and Into Playful, Effortless Banter
Overthinking kills attraction. You’ll learn how to stop trying so hard and start enjoying the conversation — with simple frameworks to sound naturally funny, confident, and flirtatious without crossing lines or sounding rehearsed.
3. The Smooth Ask-Out Formula
No more awkward transitions, ghosted invites, or “let’s see how it goes” messages. You’ll master when to ask her out, how to word it so it feels natural and exciting, and where to take her for the first date so she feels both comfortable and intrigued.
The Golden Guidebook:
✅ The Chemistry Hack — Finally understand what Spark really is (and isn’t), the exact feelings to lead her into, and the ones to avoid if you want her hooked. (Value: $47)
✅ Your Personal Playbook — Packed with exercises that help you uncover your blind spots, master your strengths, and build a clear roadmap to the results you want. (Value: $79)
✅ The Modern Dating Advantage — Learn how attraction has changed in today’s world — and how to show your masculinity in a way that excites women instead of turning them off. (Value: $68)
✅ The Spark Stopper Method — Discover the four feelings that shut attraction down, why women keep giving you the dreaded “no chemistry” feedback, and what to do instead. (Value: $64)
✅ The Small Talk to Spark Talk Blueprint — Get proven examples and practice drills for clever, witty conversation that turns dates from flat and logical into fun, flirty, and unforgettable. (Value: $96)
You're Not Alone -
Too many men today feel like dating is this never-ending cycle of loneliness, confusion, and rejection. You’ve probably heard “I just didn’t feel a spark” more times than you’d like. And every time, it leaves you wondering: What am I doing wrong?
Here’s the truth—nothing is “wrong” with you. You are worthy of love. You are worthy of a real connection. You are worthy of having a woman see you for the good man you are.
The problem isn’t you—it’s that no one ever taught men how to navigate the modern dating world. Society failed to give you the tools. And while it’s easy to believe that women don’t want relationships anymore, I can tell you: good women do want committed, loving relationships with good men.
If you are a good man, you’re already halfway there. What you need now are the skills and insights to keep a woman’s attention, create genuine spark, and stand out from the sea of other men who don’t understand how to connect on a deeper level.
That’s exactly what this course gives you—from a feminine perspective, explained in a way that makes attraction simple, clear, and actionable.
You don’t need to stay stuck in frustration. You don’t need to settle for loneliness. You deserve the relationship you’ve been craving—and the first step to choosing yourself is investing in yourself by clicking that red button.
xoxo jamie
I'm Ready for Change